These are my boobs
- I am NOT posting them to gain/lose followers.
- I am NOT posting them for “attention” or to try and be sexy.
- I am NOT posting them for anyone but myself.
I am posting this picture of my breasts because I am SICK AND TIRED of body shaming. I am SO OVER being told I look like a whore in everything I own because I have large breasts. I am done with feeling self conscious and covering up to please the masses.
I was only a child the first time I had a parent tell me I looked like a slut in certain shirts because my boobs were large. My entire teenage years were spent being told by my parents and grandparents that certain clothes made me look like a slut (or fat) and that I shouldn’t wear them.
My own grandmother actually told me that if I showed some breast (and wore certain clothing or jewelry) that I was inviting rapist to rape me. That I wouldn’t have anyone to blame but myself because I was dressing provocatively. I had countless teachers and mothers of my friends make rude comments about my breasts and my body because I was a sexy hot curvy women and they couldn’t handle it. Instead of being proud of what I had I ended up resenting my own body and I developed eating disorders and started self harming.
That invited numerous abusive people into my life and I found myself in relationship after relationship with people who would tell me what I could and couldn’t wear. That I MUST be trying to pick up other people if I wear anything other than a turtle neck or button up polo. That I was fat, that I was a whore, that I was worthless….
After years of being told that showing even the smallest amount of breast made me a horrible person I snapped and went in the opposite direction. I posted countless naked pictures online trying to get attention for some twisted boost of confidence because I didn’t like myself. Any attention because good attention which only made the original problem even worse.
For one, I HATE the terms whore and/or slut. Just because a woman enjoys having sex with people doesn’t make them a bad person. Having an active healthy sex life does NOT make rape okay, it does NOT make slut shaming okay. There is nothing wrong with sex. SEX IS AMAZING. I LOVE ORGASMS! Even so, I only slept with people I was in committed relationships with and I can count the amount of women I’ve slept with on one hand yet I spent every other day being told I was a whore BECAUSE my shirt showed the curve of my breasts or a v-neck showed a little cleavage. Do you know what that does to a person? Ask my wife how it’s made me think.
My wife constantly tells me she thinks I’m beautiful no matter what I wear or what I do but that she would love to see me in something other than a baggy ten times to large for shirt. I wear tents to hide my body because I hate it. If I happen to have a good day and I go to the store in a v-neck I spent the entire time uncomfortable and dodging glances and glares. MARRIED STRAIGHT WOMEN ARE THE WORST STOP GLARING AT ME AND SHAKING YOUR HEAD BECAUSE YOU MARRIED A PIG THAT STARES AND DROOLS.
I AM TIRED OF FEELING BAD ABOUT MY BODY BECAUSE I DON’T WANT TO OFFEND OTHER PEOPLE BY HAVING BIG BOOBS. I didn’t ask for big boobs, in fact I’ve spent every christmas of my childhood life adding breast reduction to my list in hopes someone would take me seriously and cut them off. I’m done hating my body because my family told me I looked fat or like a whore because I’m curvy.
This is me and I’m going to start loving myself for who and what I am. I’m not apologizing anymore. I’m not covering up anymore. I’ll wear what makes ME feel sexy not for anyone but ME and maybe my wife because she loves the ta-ta’s. I’m never going to let anyone tell me I look like a whore ever again and if they do I am most certainly NOT going to feel bad about it or take it to heart.
This is my body, the only one I’ll ever have. These are my boobs unless I MYSELF decide to change them and that would be okay too because I’d be doing it for me NOT YOU. These boobs are going to feed my future kids and don’t even get me started on breast feeding in public. I’m not taking any shit from anybody about that.
Stop slut shaming
Stop body shaming
This has been a post.
Right where I want her…